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JOINT BASE MYER-HENDERSON HALL, Va. - Corie Weathers, an Army spouse, was named the 2015 Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year, May 8, which also happens to be Military Spouse Appreciation Day.
She is the spouse of Army Capt. Matthew Weathers, a chaplain on Fort Gordon, Georgia.
While receiving the award was an honor and a happy event, Weathers said she has survived really tough times as an Army spouse, just like others have.
The darkest moments came in 2009, when her husband was deployed to Afghanistan at a place where many of his fellow Soldiers were killed or injured - Contingency Operating Post, or COP, Keating. Two Medals of Honor and nine Silver Stars were earned at COP Keating that year, when hundreds of Taliban breached the outpost's perimeter.
While her husband was in Afghanistan, Corie was on Fort Carson, Colorado. Although the chaplain was at a distant outpost, the two said they were still able to maintain almost daily contact through social media.
Corie said she fully realized the danger her husband was in. But rather than sit at home and cry, she decided to do something that would ease the pain of separation and help other spouses on post.
Being a licensed professional counselor, she decided to put that to use doing a job that is plainly heartbreaking.
Since so many were getting killed, the procedure was for the casualty notification team to deliver the news in person to the home of the spouse.
Corie's job was to then do a follow-up visit with the surviving spouse, within just minutes of the visit by the casualty notification team, said the chaplain, who termed it the "Care and Go" team.
Being a counselor, Corie was able to use that skill to listen and offer solace.
Meanwhile in Afghanistan, Weathers said the strength and love of his wife helped him through the darkest days.
Today, Corie helps advise and set up Care and Go teams on Fort Gordon.
She also continues to provide counseling to other spouses, mainly dealing with issues of employment, career issues, domestic violence and others.
"Military spouses need more help - a place to talk, to hurt, to be real without feeling it is unpatriotic or out of place," she said.
The goal, she continued, is to help them "thrive in their marriages, their personal goals, cope with the changes in their Soldiers, as well as the coming changes in the military."
JULIA KYSELA
While Corie was the overall winner of Military Spouse of the Year, there were other winners representing each of the services, with the National Guard included.
Julia Kysela was selected as the National Guard Spouse of the Year. Her husband, Sgt. 1st Class Daniel Kysela, is a member of the Pennsylvania Army National Guard.
Julia and her husband organized the "I've Got Your Six" 6-kilometer and 1-mile races to support the VALOR Clinic Foundation. Proceeds go to help struggling veterans in crisis and homeless veterans.
Julia is also the family member support director for Steel City Vets, an organization that supports post-9/11 veterans in Pittsburgh and western Pennsylvania.
When Julia was 23 years old, she said her husband deployed to Iraq and that was a wakeup call for her. She never realized how alone she would feel and also how much worrying she would do.
That is when she said she began to do volunteer work for Soldiers and veterans in the community. Her advice to other spouses in that situation is to not only do volunteer work, but find time to relax.
STACEY BENSON
Stacey Benson was selected as the Coast Guard Spouse of the Year. She and her husband, Petty Officer 1st Class Larry Benson, are stationed at U.S. Coast Guard District 1 in Rhode Island.
Her husband is a former Soldier, so she said she has experienced living alone through six deployments.
While volunteering on the board of Military Spouses of Newport, Rhode Island, Benson said she noticed there were a lot of spouses, who had talent and ambition and wanted to work, but had grown frustrated with a lack of opportunities.
So she took action. Now, as military liaison of Newport Hospital, she uses her role with Military Spouses of Newport to help other military spouses find employment in the local health care system.
"If employers give a military spouse a chance, they will get a hard-working, dedicated and well-educated person, who gives them 110 percent in return," she said.
NICOLE SPAID
Nicole Spaid was selected as the Marine Corps Spouse of the Year. She lives with her husband, Wes Spaid, on Marine Corps Air Station New River, North Carolina.
They have been married for 20 years and have been through eight deployments and 10 permanent change of station moves.
She too said she has found fulfillment in volunteer work in a myriad of ways on post and in the community. She said she believes every spouse, military child and Family "possesses unique gifts and talents that add to the strength of our military community."
With the downsizing and budget cuts, she said, "the resources available to military Families are shrinking as well." That is why it is so important to volunteer. "I have found that families do not want a handout. They want a hand up!"
ANTONIA WILBER
Antonia Wilber was selected as the Navy Spouse of the Year. She and her husband, Keith Wilber, are stationed on Naval Base Guam.
She volunteers her time as a COMPASS mentor and team leader. COMPASS is a spouse-to-spouse mentoring program that improves quality of life through education, enabling spouses to understand, experience and meet the challenges of the Navy lifestyle.
She also volunteers at the Navy Marine Corps Relief Society, helping families to thrift shop and provides them financial counseling during times of crisis and assists them with security interest-free loans when needed.
Her philosophy: "Every military Family deserves an environment that fosters unity, yet encourages independence, whether through social network, neighbors, faith, Family or employment. Education, guidance and support are key to success of military families."
JANA KINGERY
Jana Kingery was selected as the Air Force Spouse of the Year. She and her husband, Master Sgt. Matthew Kingery, are stationed on Beale Air Force Base, California.
Kingery founded the Team Lone Tree Volunteers program in 2011. She also volunteers at her local school, teaching and tutoring students, among many other volunteer activities.
Also, as a Key Spouse liaison, she manages the calendar of events and activities for more than 148 military families.
She said she challenges other spouses to "get involved to help foster a sense of family at each new assignment."
SPECIAL GUEST
Taya Kyle, author of "American Wife: A Memoir of Love, War, Faith and Renewal," was presented with the Gabby Giffords Award for Courage and Bravery. She spoke at the luncheon, saying the real heroes are spouses, who are living through the often difficult way of life that military spouses face. Their courage and commitment is tremendous, she said.
The 2015 co-chairs attending the event included Joint Chiefs of Staff spouses and VIPs: Deanie Dempsey, Mary Winnefeld, Linda Odierno, Ellyn Dunford, Darleen Greenert, Betty Welsh, Fran DeNinno-Zukunft, Pat Grass, Holly Dailey, Theresa Stevens, Athena Cody, Janet Cantrell, and Blaire Brush.
| Date Taken: | 05.08.2015 |
| Date Posted: | 05.11.2015 14:34 |
| Story ID: | 162903 |
| Location: | ARLINGTON, VA, US |
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