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My name is Captain Monique Allen . I'm

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the company commander for 2nd MSB here

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aboard Camp Lejeune . I'm currently the

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OSCar team member representative for my

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unit and my MOS by trade is 0602 ,

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which is a communications officer .

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Oscar is a program that was built by

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Marines for Marines . It is combat

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and operational stress control first

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aid that is administered both downrange

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and in the rear to help Marines

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identify and mitigate their stress and

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to become more lethal warfighters . The

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Oscar program is a program that is

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built by Marines for Marines . The goal

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of the Oscar program is to enable

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Marines of all ranks in our formations

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at all levels to identify stressors

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within themselves and each other , to

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help them mitigate those stressors by

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providing tools and strategies that

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they can utilize to implement in their

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daily lives , and to support a holistic

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MCTI concept which is Marine Corps

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Total Fitness . That is the beauty of

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this program and it is one of its most

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empowering features because this

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program spans every rank in our

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formation . Anyone in the Marine Corps

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can become an OSCAR team member . This

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creates a level of accessibility to

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Marines for not only their leadership

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but also their peers . OSCAR team

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member training is a one day course

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that is built on conversation and life

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experiences . It is delivered by a

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trained and qualified master trainer

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for Oscar Gen 4 to a group of Marines

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who have come forward to volunteer to

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be the ones in their formation that

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helped the brother and the sister to

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the left and the right of them . The

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training focuses on stress first aid

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concepts . And focuses on providing

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Marines tools and strategies that they

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can utilize to help their fellow

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brothers and sisters and to implement

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in their own personal daily lives .

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While both Gen 3 and Gen 4 course

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material offers standardization of

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concepts and standardization of

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delivery , Gen 4 offers command

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flexibility . It greatly

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increases the focus on

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spanning and empowering junior Marines

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to . Embrace this concept of combat

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and operational stress control first

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aid for not only themselves but for

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their peers . Studies have shown that

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peer to peer support is more effective

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long term . And as a Marine Corps , as

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a war fighting institution , we teach

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our NCOs on the daily that our NCOs and

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junior Marines are going to be the ones

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who fight our country's battles and who

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are responsible for those to the left

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and right of them . This is just one

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more tool in their tool kit that they

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can take both downrange and keep in the

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rear to make them more lethal . Gen 3

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training was very standardized . It was

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very scripted . Um , while it

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delivered key operational concepts ,

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Gen 4 training focuses on proactive

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identification and mitigation at the

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lowest possible level . It builds on

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itself through delivery and through

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action . One key component of the

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Oscar Gen 4 curriculum is the action

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plan for commands . Gen 3

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called the action plan or labeled it as

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an activities plan . By rebranding and

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relabeling Oscar as an action plan ,

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it enables Marines to have a bias for

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action , to take the action up and down

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their formations and their chains of

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command , and to take it forward . I

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think that the data would suggest that

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Oscar saves lives . And it has a

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lasting impact on not only Marines ,

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but Marines' families . These are

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concepts and techniques and tools that

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the Marines can utilize in uniform and

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out of uniform . Not only will it

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enable them to become more lethal and

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bring the war fighter through a total

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Marine Corps concept . In uniform , but

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it will also greatly enable them to

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return to society as better human

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beings , better contributors . Um , to

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bring a nation forward . The curriculum

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for Oscar G 4 when it's presented to

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the class is enabling the instructor

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to know their audience , know the

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Marines that they're teaching , while

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it offers standardization in terms of

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concepts that we are required and

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should be teaching to the Marines in

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our classes . It enables the Marines to

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grow from each other . It enables them

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to create a safe space for one another

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to share personal life experiences that

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ultimately impact their operational

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readiness through understanding . It

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communicates a softer yet

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Lethal approach to how we advance the

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war fighting concept through Marine

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Corps Total Fitness . So OSCAR program

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impacts Marines' ability to be better

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equipped to manage their stress . Every

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Marine , regardless of rank , billet ,

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unit , and assignment , will experience

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stress at some point in their life .

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Most Marines have experienced stress

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prior to entering the Marine Corps . We

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will continue to experience stress

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while serving in uniform , and we will

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continue to experience stress post

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transitioning from the service . It's a

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facet of life . OSCA identifies that

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it looks at it as a strength through

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adversity and we equip Marines to

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better mitigate and manage their stress

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so they can grow in that and they can

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grow their capacity for .

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Understanding what their stress is

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coming from and how to better handle it .

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So Oscar Gen for the COSC program

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is a program that was built by Marines

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for Marines . Once received by team

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members , those team members go back to

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their units and they take what they've

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learned with them . That's your first

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accessibility point , is the brother

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and the sister who wears the uniform to

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the left and the right of you . After

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that , the Marine Corps and the

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Department of War have . Greatly

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utilize the resources in front of them

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to provide marines with stress

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mitigation tools . These will range

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from the NFLC , the community

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counseling programs , the family life

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centers , the chaplains . Our resource

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list is vast , and the beauty of that

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is it will enable each marine to find a

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tool and a strategy that best helps

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them . To expand upon their Marine

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Corps Total Fitness , their physical ,

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their mental , their emotional , their

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spiritual strengths , and to be able to

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strengthen those and return to the

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formation through progressive and

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proper reintegration with the support

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of not only their peers but their

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leadership . And the support will

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continue . It doesn't stop after a

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stressful life event . It doesn't begin

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once that stressful life event occurs .

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It begins far before that and it

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continues far after that . The Oscar

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training builds on itself through each

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lesson , each day if you're going to be

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a master trainer or a core master

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trainer . It teaches you key concepts .

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To not only help Marines but identify

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yourself and challenge yourself to be a

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better leader and to rise to the

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occasion . Of embracing and taking care

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of America's sons and daughters . We as

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leaders are entrusted to do that . It's

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both an honor , a privilege . And a

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burden That needs to be taken very

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seriously . The Oscar Gen

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4 program challenges me to do that as a

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leader . I think that's crucial .

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Their requirements as we go through the

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ranks only become greater . The number

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of Marines that we're responsible for

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only rise . They don't lower . And

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this program teaches leaders to be

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sensitive to that . It teaches them to

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know their marines and know their

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welfare . It teaches them the

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sacredness of life . And it helps

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us understand at all levels what it

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takes to be a totally fit Marine .

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Marines can be physically fit . Marines

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can be war fighting ready . Marines can

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be the most lethal uniformed

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force on a battlefield in another

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nation . But we must take care of our

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own . And we must start that at home .

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What have been my personal experiences

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with stress in my career ?

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I believe that as a leader in the

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Marine Corps , you're called to

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something much higher than yourself . I

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think that calling is recognized very

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early on in our training . But we face

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it head on once we enter the fleet

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Marine Force . We receive

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young Marines . who come to

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us and trusted . By American

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mothers and fathers . To train their

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sons and daughters . To be war fighters

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and to also keep them safe .

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And when I say safe , I'm referencing .

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Physically , emotionally , spiritually ,

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mentally . To take care of them .

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That is a responsibility that is

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greater than myself . That

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responsibility alone introduces stress

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on a daily basis .

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I'm also introduced to stress on a

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daily basis by intaking my Marines .

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And being the open door , being the

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safe space , being the security that

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they can have to trust . To be

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courageous , to come forward and to ask

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for help . That's not a small feat .

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We as a Marine Corps do a very good job

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of teaching strength and we do a very

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good job of teaching responsibility we

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do a very good job of .

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Teaching duty But part of

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that is you have a duty to yourself and

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you have a duty . To your brother and

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your sister to the left and right of

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you . And part of that is understanding

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where stress can impact you and your

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peers negatively and positively . I

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think I strive daily to be a better

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leader , to bring that to fruition with

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my Marines . To be the one that they

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can come to and ask for help . To be

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the one that they can rely on to .

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Cover them and to connect them with a

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resource that works for them to get

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them back into the fight . Ultimately

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that's my job . is to ensure that the

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Marines in my formation are ready to

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fight . They're ready to answer our

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nation's call when required . And that

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starts with themselves .

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They need themselves , they need their

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minds , they need their physicality ,

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they need their spirituality . They

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need , they need their stability . For

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me to be able to trust them with a

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weapon in their hand and to go forward

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and to make ethical and moral decisions

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downrange . And that's my

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responsibility is to prepare them for

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that . And I do not take that

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lightly . As a leader . Because each of

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my marines comes from a different walk

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of life , they come from different

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cultures , they come from different

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backgrounds . I really have to know my

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marines . I really have to know who

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they are beyond just their name and

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their rank . I have to understand them .

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And I have to appreciate the

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differences and build upon their

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strengths and their weaknesses to

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create . This amazing lethal

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fighting force that we have in the

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Marine Corps that is the best of the

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best . And I think the Oscar program

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will only enhance that , and I think we

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as leaders need to embrace the stress

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and the responsibility that induces on

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ourselves because that only makes us

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better , it makes us strive and

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continue to reach for our why .

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Which is what we joined for to lead

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Marines . I think Oscar has helped

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me in two ways . One on a personal

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level , it's helped me by

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equipping me with different tools such

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as box breathing , grounding techniques ,

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introducing me to new resources that I

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may not have known about before . To

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help me mitigate my stress , to help me

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become a better person , to help me

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invest in my MCTF . On a professional

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level , Oscar continues to challenge me

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as a leader . He continues to propel me

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forward . It continues to grow my

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relationship with my Marines by

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creating those moments where I can not

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only be vulnerable with them , but I

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can be honest with them . I can show

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them that even though I'm an officer in

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the Marine Corps , even though I have a

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degree , even though . I have a

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marriage that's successful does not

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mean that I don't have my own stressors .

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Um , I think that resonates with

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Marines when you can sit there and go

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kneecap to kneecap with them . I think

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that resonates with Marines when You

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can . Look them in the eye and tell

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them the truth . You can sit with them

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and be raw . That's what the Marine

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Corps is built on raw , lethal

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war fighting . We focus

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and We embrace that

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downrange . We don't shy from it . And

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I think Oscar implores us to be

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courageous and not shy away from what

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stresses us in our personal life .

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That's not Requiring us to take

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a step back and take a knee in a

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negative way , it's requiring us to

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take that knee , interlocking arms with

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those around us , and to move forward

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together . I would just offer that

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courage takes reps and sets .

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It's not a skill that you learn

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overnight . It's not something that

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you're born with . I think that's why

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Marines joined the Marine Corps because

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it challenges them to rise to a higher

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bar . We are our nation's warfighters .

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We are the first to fight . And that is

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a driving factor of our motivation ,

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but I think that the Oscar program , I

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believe that the Oscar program .

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Implores Marines to have the same

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amount of mental courage to face

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themselves . To face their mentality .

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To face the skeletons that may be in

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their closet . And to turn to their

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brothers and sisters and to do the same .

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Have the courage to tell someone , hey ,

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you need some help and I'm gonna get

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you that help . I'm gonna be the one

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that can help you . Just being the one

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courageous enough to have the

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conversation and ask the question .

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Ultimately that can save a life . And

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some circumstances are not as extreme

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as that . It varies on the stress

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continuum . But some circumstances are .

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And we as Marines might never fully see

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the impact that Oscar program has on

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our peers or on ourselves . But I think

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that the result of this program is

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going to be a more lethal , holistic

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war fighting institution . That is the

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continued example for America .

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How have I learned to manage stress in

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my life ? The first key thing that

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I learned to do is identify it . In the

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Marine Corps we have a lot of stress .

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That ranges from personal requirements

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to our physical fitness standards every

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year to our billet descriptions and

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what our job entails to the looming

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deployment . Stress compounds on itself .

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The more that you build upon it and the

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more that you set it aside , I believe

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that Oscar has taught me to not set it

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aside . Oscar has taught me to identify

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it . To take hold of it , to embrace

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it , and to work through it with

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emotional regulation , with a

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steadiness , with courage , with

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resources that are there to help me .

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So I would say as a leader , the Oscar

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program has first and foremost

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challenged me to continue being better .

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It has continued to require of me to

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push to a higher standard . It supports

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me remembering my why each and every

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day . Taking care of Marines is my

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calling that I joined the Marine Corps

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to do . It was my original why when I

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signed the papers . It continued to be

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my why when I raised my hand and swore

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my oath as an officer in the United

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States Marine Corps . In December of

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2020 , and this program continues to

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drive that forward for me because it

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puts Marines at the forefront . It is

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a program by Marines for Marines that

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continues to be fostered and taken

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forward by the same Marines . That made

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it That's awesome

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And it spans the entire formation , so

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it's a calling for not only the junior

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marine in the formation but also for me

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as a leader . So it continues to

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develop me . I continue to change for

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the better as a leader through the

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Oscar program . Being an Oscar

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representative for my unit continues to

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change me as a person . In a

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good way It helps me understand

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the stressors that my Marines and their

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families are going through . It helps

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me understand how to better proactively

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identify what could be coming down the

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path for me and my marines and to

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proactively mitigate that . In more

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serious situations , it helps me to

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take a knee with that marine . It has

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developed my perspectives . It has

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broadened my scope of how to deal

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with situations and how to understand

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the totality of the circumstances as a

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leader and to make intentional

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decisions for the welfare of the marine

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and for the welfare of the institution

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as a person Oscar has helped me

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become more emotionally regulated . It

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has developed me in my character .

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It has brought me forward from things

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in my past that I did not necessarily

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think that I could overcome , and I am

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now able to share those experiences

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with Marines around me . To help them

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And it resonates . And I think that's

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the goal . Is that when we are able to

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overcome our own individual life

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circumstances , we should want to help

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those around us overcome theirs . And

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the beauty of Oscar is you don't have

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to have gone through the same exact

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circumstances someone else is going

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through in order to help them . What

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your circumstance gives you is the

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courage to help them . It gives you the

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knowledge on how to help them . Which

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is huge . But it requires no

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qualifications . It just requires you

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to be a good human being and a good

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marine . I think the one thing that I

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would offer in conclusion to any marine

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watching . Is be the one

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Be the one . We're told to be that from

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day one . From the moment we step on

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the yellow footprints to the moment

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that we pin chevrons or rank on our

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collars . We're driven forward to be

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the one for our nation . Be

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the one for yourself . And be the one

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for your brother and your sister to the

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left and right of you . It could save

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you And it does save those to the left

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and right of you . And it's OK if

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you're the only one . But be the one .

